The women in Ghana military force has taken to social media to cry out about how limiting their profession is with their personal lives which has somewhat hinder most of them from getting the desired methey would be willing to settle down with.
The women have opened up about there various struggles with finding and settling with the right man as they insisted that they would take it upon themselves and will start proposing to men since none is forth coming and there isn’t enough time on their side.
Narrating how lonely their lives have become and what they are willing to do to free themselves from such ordeal. They opened up about what they face and possibly solutions to curb it.
According to the blogger, Anaedo, the military women who are not married yet have decided to propose to men if they are afraid to approach them.
There is this stereotypes that comes with been involved with a woman who’s military. Many men, particularly African men tend to shy away from women they perceive to be stronger physically and alot masculine representing. Reasons for such displayed behaviour might spur out from the fact that, they are either scared and have deemed themselves insecure to stand up to such women.
Somewhere last year, these beautiful military women lamented on how men are afraid to approach sake of their profession. They are saddened that this men have refused to look at them beyond the Army uniform they wear and decidedly taken faith in their own hands by choosing to approach these men themselves.
They said, Going forward in 2019, they have decided to do what is not the norm in Ghana because if the mountain refuses to come to Mohammed, Mohammed must go to the mountain. In an interview; they said;
“We know it’s not right to chase men ourselves but we have no option now. We are not harmful as people see us so men should feel free and propose to us. Some of us are dying of loneliness and we can’t take it any-more. We will propose to men soon”, they lamented. They, however, collectively have released a platform where single men can hook up with them.”
The platform was created solely for men who are interested in uniformed women who can not be able to have a passive interaction can meet them on the platform and take the relationship to the next level if they find themselves compatible enough.
Although, since the platform was built, there haven’t been much of a success pertaining getting a desired male partner, but nevertheless they believed men can comfortably interact with them without feeling scared.
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