Former Big Brother housemate makes controversial statement about men as failures! See what happened

Pokello Nare is a Zimbabwean socialite, businesswoman and former Big Brother Africa (BBA) housemate and a lot of comments have been made about her recent post on her Instagram page. The estranged ex-wife of Ghanian celebrity fashion designer, Elikem Kumordzi said any man who fails to make his woman add weight as a result of being with her, is a failure.

She wrote;

“If you walk into a Woman’s life and she doesn’t gain weight, you have failed as a Man.”

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She seems to be very passionate about the stance of men and women together in society. Earlier in May, she spoke about why men and women thrive in society.

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During the launch of the SHE Roars brand,Pokello Nare was one of the guest speakers and she made a lot of  notable remarks about women in society,

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Nare said despite questions being raised over her morality, she has a lot of advice to offer and teach to young girls on how they can manage their emotions.

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“I know a lot of people on Facebook Live watching will probably say what can Pokello teach young women? I can teach young women to manage their emotions.

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The reason why men don’t like to put women in positions of power or leadership is that you don’t know how to manage your emotions. You are so emotional, young women need to learn to move with strategy and not emotion.

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“Everything is not about your emotions. Money follows vision, not your emotions, we don’t care what you are going through, we don’t need to know, and that’s what separates men from women. Women need to learn to be less emotional and that’s one thing you can learn from me.

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“No matter what you think they are reading about me or circulating I still function 100% and sleep at night,” Nare said.

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She added that women should prioritize finances over men even though society has taught women that getting married is an achievement.

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Pokello urged women to chase their dreams and careers whilst in their 20s before looking into getting married at a young age.

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“Another thing I can teach young women is finances over marriage. Society teaches young women that getting married is the ultimate accomplishment and achievement.

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Young women have no business getting married in their 20s because you marry men that don’t comply with your spirit, careers and dreams.

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“So now you are in your 20s, you are a wife, mother, you are unemployed, you are a housewife, and you are demotivated and frustrated because of a decision to get married. Women need to focus on their careers and finances.

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“Men don’t abuse women who have it all together, they abuse the woman that is waiting on his payroll, he will never abuse me because at any point I can walk out, get into my car and walk out,” explained Nare.

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Pokello urged the young ladies to be confident and develop an outer ego that goes for what it yearns for and to love themselves hard.

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Source: Gistreel.com/allafrica.com

 

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