I caught my married male friend being pleasured by another man
DEAR DEIDRE: I WAS horrified to catch one of my oldest male friends in a compromising position with another man. I don’t know if I should tell the truth to his wife, who is also one of my best friends. Keep up to date on social
My nightmare neighbour keeps screaming at my kids for making too much noise
DEAR DEIDRE: MY nightmare neighbour is making my family’s life unbearable. We moved into our new, second-floor flat a few months ago. I’m a single mum aged 34 with two boys, who are ten and eight. We are not noisy.
I thought friends with benefits could work – but now I’ve fallen for him
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I agreed to be a “friend with benefits” with a male pal, I never expected to fall for him. But now, after hooking up with him several times a week for the past few months, I’ve realised I’ve fallen in love.
I thought friends with benefits could work – but now I’ve fallen for him
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I agreed to be a “friend with benefits” with a male pal, I never expected to fall for him. But now, after hooking up with him several times a week for the past few months, I’ve realised I’ve fallen in love.
You made me realise my in-laws were narcissists – now we’re happier without them
DEAR DEIDRE: I CONTACTED you when my fiancé’s family were making my life hell. They hated me when we first met four years ago and tried to turn him against me. I’m 38 and he’s 40. They accused me of being manipulative, of cheating and of being money-grabbing.
How do I get over the death of my beloved cat?
DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE my cat died a month ago, I have been heartbroken. She has been part of my life since I was a ten-year-old boy, when my parents bought her as a kitten. I’m now 23 and can’t imagine life without her.
How do I get over the death of my beloved cat?
DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE my cat died a month ago, I have been heartbroken. She has been part of my life since I was a ten-year-old boy, when my parents bought her as a kitten. Keep up to date on social For more Dear Deidre content, and to meet the team behind the infamous agony page, follow us on:
I think my boyfriend’s gone off me – what did I do wrong?
DEAR DEIDRE: MY new boyfriend blew into my life like a whirlwind, but now he’s about as passionate as stagnant air. I think he’s gone off me and I don’t know what I’ve done wrong. Keep up to date on social
When I meet new people, I never know what to say or do
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I meet new people, I can never think of anything interesting to say. My mind goes blank, I start stuttering and talk complete rubbish. The other person always looks at me like I’m a moron, and it ends in an awkward silence.
I think my boyfriend’s gone off me – what did I do wrong?
DEAR DEIDRE: MY new boyfriend blew into my life like a whirlwind, but now he’s about as passionate as stagnant air. I think he’s gone off me and I don’t know what I’ve done wrong. I’m 18 and he’s 20.
When I meet new people, I never know what to say or do
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I meet new people, I can never think of anything interesting to say. My mind goes blank, I start stuttering and talk complete rubbish. Keep up to date on social For more Dear Deidre content, and to meet the team behind the infamous agony page, follow us on:
I thought I was a lesbian until I did something really silly with a male friend
DEAR DEIDRE: I BROKE up with my boyfriend because I thought I was a lesbian. But now I’ve realised I’m not and I feel like I’m having some sort of identity crisis. I’m 29 and it all started when I was having issues in the bedroom.
My fiancée and I are avoiding sex until our wedding – but we can’t stop arguing
DEAR DEIDRE: MY fiancée and I decided to stop having sex three months before our wedding day so that our wedding night would be really special. But the sexual frustration is causing us to argue constantly. Keep up to date on social For more Dear Deidre content, and to meet the team behind the infamous agony page, follow us on:
I feel guilty for moaning about my teacher in a Reddit thread that went viral
DEAR DEIDRE: EVERYONE had a teacher they didn’t like but mine was probably one of the worst. He was constantly telling me how useless I was. Once, when I got the lowest score on a test, he said: “I wouldn’t bother trying any more as I doubt anything will change.”
My boyfriend keeps texting his ex-girlfriend but claims they’re just friends
DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend is always on the phone with his best friend – a woman he briefly dated two years ago. I’m 25, he’s 27 and we’ve been dating for a year. Keep up to date on social For more Dear Deidre content, and to meet the team behind the infamous agony page, follow us on: