The heartbroken lady posted a video online of herself crying after the alleged act as she revealed her plan to get the supposed suspect arrested. A Facebook user named Stella, who shared the lady’s plight, warned men to desist from forcing sex on ladies when they are not giving consent. Some others have argued that the best way to avoid rape is for the ladies to restrict their visits to men’s apartments alone.
OK. So you’re just out of a relationship and you’re fresh in the dating market. You’re thinking of hooking up with a beautiful young woman irrespective of where or how you meet her. It could be at the bar, a red light district or even the club. All you’re concerned about is the fact that she’s single and you should make that move simply because she’s a potential fling or girlfriend in the making. Even though she seems to be a good catch, you may want to watch some subtle signs she may be giving off that may be an indication of the negativity she would bring, if you ever considered dating her. As a result, here are five types of women you should do all you can to avoid (at least till you get to know them well enough) when you’re on the lookout for a woman to date.
The One That Dislikes What She Does
A lot of women are around who don’t give a hoot what happens to their jobs or careers simply because they would rather not work but get someone who would shoulder all their responsibilities. It is important for you to deduce if she’s on to you for different reasons that have nothing to do with the real you such as your account balance. You can ask her about her career and be on the lookout for how passionate she answers your inquiry. If she’s also driven to leave her present job for something bigger, then that’s a good sign. If she’s however the type that isn’t too keen about what she does and jumps around from one job to the other or repeatedly tells you she dislikes work, she may be out for the money. Women that are like this mostly do not appreciate how generous you may be on the long run which has a negative effect on whatever kind of relationship you plan to have with her.
The One That’s Always Stuck With Her Phone
Someone that’s attached to their phones are problematic in that they have a need to constantly stay in contact with people perhaps as a means of feeling secured. They may not necessarily be chatting with their friends or acquaintances but they feel a compulsion to check their phone for details. Dependency on social media through their smart phones would present a problem as time goes on if you end up dating them.
A Lady That Just Came Out Of A Broken Relationship
There are a lot of reasons why these type of women should not be atop your list of potential dates. Though they are very attractive, passionate and wild, chances are they would break your heart. A woman that just got out of a relationship is doing all she can to avoid any new pain. They usually want to be around people and will connect with anyone around them that would make them feel better. Such women would easily jump into any relationship that comes their way which increases the chances of you getting hurt if you ever get attached to them.
The Lady Seated Alone Downing Drinks In The Bar
A lot of men are attracted to women that can hold their own and do typically the kind of things men do on a regular. It is however important you avoid throwing caution to the wind as she may just be at the bar to blow off steam after a bad day or worse still a breakup. More so, she may be the type that gets emotional after one too many drinks and the fun night you might have been on the lookout for could turn into a night of tears and petting.
The One That Blames The World For Everything That’s Wrong With Her
Rolling with a pessimistic woman is something you don’t want to do especially one that never sees her fault in things. Such people are basically incapable of accepting responsibility for their actions and would rather blame everyone and everything for whatever wrong befalls them. They would never change any of their problematic attitude because they never see anything wrong in their actions. If you find her constantly talking about how everyone messes up but her, you may want to reconsider going ahead with a relationship.
The difference between men and women are as much as the similarities. Men can look for women in any place and at anytime while women tend to show more discretion while searching for men. What you have to do as a man is to try and decipher her subtle stares. It is estimated that in about 70 percent of cases, women (usually unconsciously) are the ones that make the first move by sending out non verbal signs communicated through deep stares and sensual looks. Check out these four places you can get women secretly scanning for potential mates, of which you just may be one.
Women scan for men here for several reasons. One of them is that they can hardly resist the aura of a man dressed in a bespoke suit or nice shirts and trousers. Asides this, women can deduce how a man lives his life from his coordination in the office. Some of the subtle signs she’s on the lookout for include if you’re the office gossip, if you’re a perennial latecomer or if you’re always willing to lend a helping hand.
You can determine if she’s into you by catching her constantly looking at you while you’re looking away. She may also be checking up on you in your workplace more than normal.
Women are always on the lookout at the beach because that’s where they can easily analyse different men as they sit and unwind while they are stripped to their midriff. If you do catch a girl staring at you, she’s likely picturing in her mind what it would be like for the two of you to have fun together. You can determine which one is into you by scanning the different faces for primping and piercing gazes. If you find one staring at you who goes for her makeup purse and starts applying lipgloss, it’s a sign that one is attracted to you. Get your flows on and make a move.
Bar And Lounges
She will probably tell you she’s at the lounge to hang out with her friends but the truth is her eyes are scanning the whole of the environment for eligible men. Get your approach right and tell her your name straight up. Tell her you’re at the bar to celebrate after a successful day at work and you’d probably get good points for being a prospect. You should also take note of any woman that walks past you as much as those that glance at you as they may be trying to gain your attention.
This is one of the quickest places to meet a woman scanning for potential partners. A lot of women would be in church looking up to God to get the right kind of man while also keeping an eye out for the man. It’s also a good place for women because all men would be at their best behaviour added to the fact that quite a lot of women report wanting a God-fearing man. If you fall in this category, you’d instantly appeal to such women. Never ignore any eye contact she tries to put up. Simply look down and look up again while smiling at her. This would make her ease into a conversation with you.
As men, we’ve seen women do a lot of terrifying and frustrating things all in the name of love. Some of these things may range from manipulation, invasion of privacy and even domestic violence. The truth however is that it hardly comes from nowhere. It is usually as a result of pent up emotions which built up as a result of what guys did a lot of the time. The things women do may be crazy but they are usually for a reason. Here are five of those crazy things.
If she doesn’t love you, she probably won’t be jealous right? The thing here however is that women tend to have some form of unfounded jealousy which provokes reactions that can be very scary. You could find yourself in a situation where she can go all ballistic on you for flirting with someone in a public place or grabbing your phone to check who you were all smiles with when you received a call. She loves you and wants you, that’s why she goes through the pain.
Basic fact. Men can wait longer to have children but women always have their biological clocks to consider. She loves you well enough to want you to be the father of her babies and if she’s telling you about kids, you should respect her for this. You may not be comfortable with her timing of bringing it up but she’s just being practical.
Social Media Stalking
The internet can be ascribed to be a crazy and deceptive place. Some women and men are fully participatory in these deceptive processes which tends to backfire at some point in time. Scorned lovers abound on the internet stalking their ex partners. That of women is more serious because when they are in love, they tend to go after all the social media handles of their partners from Facebook, Twitter, Instagram to Snapchat. Their stalking mode is majorly borne out of love even though some may end up taking it overboard.
When women are in love, they tend to have some sort of severe need for sex that may make you think she’s a nymphomaniac. The honest truth is you should never see her as such for wanting to always have a piece of you as doing so only shows your double standard. The fact remains that if situations were reversed, you’d probably do worse than she’s doing and because she wants to have more sex than she normally does, shouldn’t make you belittle her. Moreover, it would be stupid to tell her you find her sexual desire atrocious as that only portrays you as a weakling not to talk of spoiling the game for the rest of the male folk.
OK. This is bad to say the least but some women do this because they have no other way of expressing their anger and need for your love. They need your trust and acceptance before they can comprehend any conflict that may arise between the both of you. This may make them lash out at inanimate things which they tend to regret later on’
Acting in any of these ways is toxic not only to the woman but to the man, the relationship and the society. These actions may stem from true love but should never be taken to the extremes.
- The mermaid position.
- The dolphin position.
- The watering can position.
The Mermaid Position
Since you are so adventurous and tired of the boring missionary and the popular doggy position, how about trying the magical move called The Mermaid position which is driving couples wild in the bedroom department. All you’ll need to do to pull this off is for the woman to lie on the edge of a bed, any raised surface like a desk. For extra elevation, the woman should add a pillow under butt and raise her legs up. Her legs must be stretched up straight in the air and kept together if possible.
The male can then enter his partner while he is standing up, but if the bed is low, he could kneel. He should hold the woman’s legs or hips firmly with one hand for extra stability, and he can thrust more deeply. That will make his other hand free to caress the woman’s breasts. The move is pleasurable and also allows deep penetration, but since your legs are together, the male will feel bigger inside you.
The Dolphin Position
The dolphin position is one sex move that can really make some waves in the bedroom department, This sex position could take your love-making to whole new heights, and it is not so hard to pull off. The dolphin position is an excellent stimulator of the G-spot. To get into this position, the woman should first lie on her back then raise her hips by pushing off her legs from the bed, but she’ll keep her head, neck, and shoulders resting on the bed. The man then moves in between her spread legs and supports her by holding her butt. The key to enjoying this sex position is gentle thrusts. Hard vigorous thrusts could cause discomfort for the woman and even lead to a neck injury.
The Watering Can Position
For couples get into this gardening-themed sex position, the woman lies on top of her man with her knees slightly bent. Then the man brings his knee up and slightly bends it while the woman spreads her legs so that the man’s legs fall in between that of his woman. This move is very intimate, as the woman’s hands wrap around the man’s back or neck so that their bodies are pressed closely together while the man’s hands are free to feel his woman’s body.
This position is called the watering can because the man can shower his woman with kisses like a watering can pouring onto a flower. This position allows both partners to inhale the scent of their bodies, enjoy passionate kisses, feel their desires and enjoy the pleasure and delight of sex by every cell.
There are some presents people would love to receive, but they can’t ask Santa for such presents because he would rule them off as naughty people. I have made a list of all the best presents to give to that sex-positive cousin, that friend who loves to have random sex, that person you’ve been sleeping with, and that person whose sex life seems to be dying. Oh most especially, these gifts are perfect for that special someone who you would love to spend the rest of your life with. Call me the naughty Santa as I share with you, my favorite holiday gift list ( you sure would want to check out twice).
Dame products – pom
Do you know a sex nerd or anyone who would love to try out a new sex product before anyone else gets it? What about someone who loves to masturbate but would love an assistant? The perfect sex you for people in this category is hitting the market this November and you just might be buying two pieces of this sweet thing. The pom sex toy is created to mimic the hand to vagina masturbation and having your loved one get first dibs on it could make their holiday a lot more fun.
Le wand petite
This was is tested and trusted to set things in motion for a mind blowing orgasm. Who ever is lucky to get this as a gift this holiday will be moaning with pleasure for a long time because this little guy packs a huge load of energy inside of it. The most interesting part of gifting this to anyone is that if they are shy, you can easily pretend you are giving them a neck massager.
Lelo flickering touch massage candle
There is that person we all love to touch, it could be your partner or that sexy guy or girl you’ve been friends with benefits with for a while. Gifting then this Lelo flickering touch massage candle would be a nice way to tell them how much you appreciate the times you’ve touched them. This item is both a massage oil and a candle so if you can pair it with a message coupon it would be just wonderful for the receiver.
WeVibe match couple vibrator
Sometimes it’s OK to give a gift you are sure to benefit from. That’s why this holiday season if mutual pleasure if your ultimate goal, then I have got you covered. The WeVibe match couple vibrator is bliss for both the receiver and giver. This partnered vibrator is an instable one and is also remote controlled. What better sex toy could a couple who enjoy both penis and vagina sex ask for. Whether you are a straight couple or a lesbian couple, this sex toy is sure to have you coming back for more.
Intro 6 G-Spot vibe – JimmyJane
So you and your paint have never had or tried a sex toy and you currently searching for the perfect one for beginners. I have found you this one and not only is it easy to use, it is pocket friendly ( just incase you want to get naughty but you are on a budget) The JimmyJane intro 6 vibrator is sure to stimulate that G- spot and maybe help you discover your squirting ability.
This holiday, you are allowed to reveal to your partner how much you know about their behavior throughout the year and also how much you want to punish them for being more naughty than nice. Did i hear you say kink? Damn right! this handcuffs are the all time best because of his safe they are. The leather is easy on the skin and won’t hurt the wearer but secure at the same time. This handcuffs is a nice present for a bride to be or that best friend of yours who is a fan of kinky sex.
Bandage boy shorts – CantiqLA
So I heard someone say lingerie is a strictly cis-gender women thing and then I recalled this brand. Cantiq is a LA based lingerie brand that creates lovely underwears that can accommodate any kind of genital. Whether you are a fan of lacy underwear or fan of mesh, these folks have everything to make you and your partner sexually appealing to each other. You can decide to grab a matching pair so you both can twin with your underpants.
Fin – Dame product
Are you a lover of sex without penis? do you enjoy rubbing your fingers on your vulva but you could use some more vibration? this little bad guy is waiting for you to make a purchase. Finder vibrators are underestimated and this Fin proves it because as little as it is, it provides all the pleasure a penis looking vibrator give. This is a really amazing gift for that single friend of yours or for your lesbian partner.
Buck Dich Paddle
This is a personal favorite because its a dual purpose sex toy. The Buck Dich Paddle is designed to offer the user a quick spank on the but and mind blowing penetration. Who doesn’t want a dildo that can spank them on the butt cheeks?
Nipples and clitoris clamp necklace
This is a sexy body chain that will turn any man on and have him stick to you like for as long as you want. This nipples and clit clamp can be worn to make any outfit look girly and can be used to being fire to the bedroom. The clamps are easily adjustable and just right for that date night you have been looking forward to.
Kids have a knack of being in certain activities they enjoy with one of both parents. Like the male child would prefer soccer with dad and the female would prefer going shopping with mom. Sons might even prefer for mommy to feed them and daughters would only have their hair done by their dads and would through tantrums when parents who do things with them aren’t around, and no trying to appease them would only cause more drama.
This might be an extremely emotional moment for you, but it is essential to understand that this period is only temporary and entirely has no link with you being a good or bad parent. So their act of favouritism shouldn’t cause you to feel bad. Young kids and teens may exhibit acts of favouritism at different periods of their lives for various reasons. Toddles would readily pick one parent over the other to be cared for, doesn’t matter if it’s the mother or the father, but you need to understand this developing phase is as necessary and healthy in strengthening the attachment process.
The aim of this stage is to find a person who can provide the child with optimum support and attention. During this stage of development or puberty, your child may send mixed emotional signals that may rock back and forth from one parent to the other. How they react towards you has nothing to do with you. Some emotions may be hard to control, and reactions vary. But knowledge of how your children behave the way they do should give you more insight into how your response should be. It may be hard to comprehend this stage, but the best thing to do is to let go. Understand that this phase would pass and it isn’t about you. Bothering yourself about your child preferring the company of your partner over yours should eat you up. It would pass.
You’d be doing more harm than good if you try to force your kid’s attention and may have the child drifting even farther away. Allow the natural course of growth happen and at its own pace. Remain calm, be patient and focus on other things on your free time; I mean, you had a life before you had your child right? Most times, your child’s parenting preference may be linked to the “parenting style” you and your partner adopt. The way you relate with your kids may be entirely different from the way your partner connects with them. Analyse the differences and see where adjustments need to be made.
It is important that you don’t let your feelings take the best of you in ways that may push you to get angry, snap, criticize your child and your partner because you are less preferred. Patience is entirely needed to getting the kind of family you pictured having. Don’t stop expressing love and respect towards your partner and child. Words like “daddy/mommy love you so much” or “you mean so much to me” , should be said daily to ensure them that despite the position they placed you, your feelings towards them didn’t change. I’m sure we’ve learned a thing or two from this post. If you’ve experienced something similar to this, please share your experience and ways you took in fixing it in the comment section. Thank you.
GUYS! Here Are 10 Ways to Give Her An Orgasm During S*x And Make Her Keep Coming Back For Pure Ecstasy
Because we know that every man loves to feel like a professional when it comes to helping their women achieve orgasm, we have decided to bring together a few tips to make the process more exciting and more accessible. Did you know that about one-quarter of the sexually active female population cannot have an orgasm in the absence of clitoral stimulation? That’s a very large census, and it is the reason why this article will teach you ten tips on how to give a woman the right clitoral stimulation. You can surprise your lady tonight with any of these moves. Get ready to use not only your tongue but your fingers, lips, toys, teeth, and gums.
Let’s begin with sucking and nibbling
A lot of guys are used to the licking down when it comes to the use of tongue on the vagina, but if you are one of those guys have you thought actually combing your tongue and lips to focus on sucking her vagina. Sucking the vagina will cause increased vasocongestion or an increased flow of blood to the clitoris and the vulva.
Use your teeth and gums
For this, to work you have to think of yourself as a point of resistance that is unmovable so that the lady can do the bulk of the work. You can easily press into the top side of your teeth and gums on the top of the clitoral gland where the clitoral hood is located and simply stay there to provide a hard surface where she can rub her clitoris against. To make this more pleasurable, have her sit on your face.
Creating the alphabets
This method may be old, but it sure has stood the test of time. The do the alphabet method on her, start by writing the letter A with your tongue on the broad surface of her labia then cross the A on her clitoris. Proceed to write the letter B and so on as smoothly as possible making sure not to focus only on her clitoris. The key here is to tantalize and tease her.
Try painting the fence and windshield wiper
You can blow your woman’s wind by blowing some warm breeze from your mouth to her vagina; then you can flick your tongue up and down on her clitoris just the way you would move your rollers or brush while painting a fence. You can alternate the movement by doing a side to side movement with your tongue like a wiper on the windshield.
Never forget the shaft
While people mostly pay attention to the tip of the clitoris, the shaft which is sometimes as long as 4inches is easily overlooked and that is unfair. It would be nice if you slid your fingers down both sides of her clitoral shaft then push and pull her clitoral hood and move in circles if you want to.
Consider playing the harmonica
Once your partner is about to have an orgasm, you can try introducing this oral vibration to the sensation you have already provided. To do this, make your lips into an “o” shape and suck in her clitoris.
Full hand massage
Every man likes it when their balls get cupped yeah? You can do that too your lady’s entire vulva with some added pleasure to her clitoris.
Welcome the waterworks
Water play a very vital if you have a shower head that you would like to use for multiple purposes. Allow the water from the shower head spray between her legs then focus it on her clitoris.
The penis massage
You know how a lady would massage her clitoris with a dildo? Your erect penis could play the role of that dildo.
This technic is the best for women whose clitoris are too sensitive.
NOT ALL BAD! Anklets That Help To Distinguish A Hot Wife From A Runs Girl Show That Other Men Are Welcome To Taste The ‘Goods’
Anklet, ankle chains, or ankle bracelet have been worn throughout the history of different cultures around the world by women. Not just as a fashion item but as a way to signify social status and sexual availability. In today’s world, a lot of women and young ladies put on anklets as a mere trinket without attaching any meaning to it. However, what it actually means when a married woman puts on an anklet is that she is sexually available to other men sometimes with the consent of her husband. A married woman who puts on an anklet is referred to as a hot wife.
Who is a hot wife?
Though we do not see them every day, hot wives are women who have been given consent by their husbands to have sex with other men even though they remain dedicated to them as wives. A hot wife puts on an anklet as a way to send the message across to other men that she’s available for sexual relations but not ready to settle with them as she already has a husband. Because a lot of women who are not hot wives put on anklets, you would hardly identify those the hot wives as some of them even leave their anklets as simple strings, so they’re scarcely identifiable. However certain anklet charms help you distinguish a hot wife from a random girl putting on an anklet.
To people who do not know what anklet charms mean, when they see someone putting on an anklet, it’s just another chain on the ankle. But to those who know the deeper meaning and already know what the charms signify it is easy to separate a hot wife from a random girl. An anklet with two female symbols and a male symbol signifies that the wearer is a hot wife. Also, anklets with the heart charm and a letter q usually accompanied with a tattoo of the playing card heart symbol with the letter q in it mean that the hot wife has a sexual preference for men of colour.
Some hot wives are very dedicated to their husbands but are available for mutual benefits relationships such hot wives put on anklets with a series of heart charms. The most interesting of all anklet charms is the key charm. When a leg chain has a key and any other sign, it means that the wife holds the key to the husband’s happiness. In other words, the husband is not allowed to achieve orgasm without his wife’s permission.
Now that you are informed about what these signs mean, it should be easy for you to point out a hot wife when you see one or even get close if you are into such women. Leg chains are adorable and sexy so if you feel like you can rock them without thinking of what people have to say, by all means, go ahead.